Be okay to be alone or easily accept the unacceptable. Learn to find the peace and joy in your solitude. This doesn’t mean that solitude is all you want. This means that solitude is apart of a healthy well-being. Solitude is a precious part of life.
It’s okay to hear the spirit. It’s okay to have clarity. It’s okay to know yourself and your true desires. It’s okay to be happy. Your happiness is your responsibility and no one else’s. If others create your happiness. They also have the power to create your misery.
Is that the power you want to give to others?
You have to be okay with being alone to secure your overall well-being. You have to think past romantic relationships. You have to think past sex. You have to think past company.
How many times have you been in love and it led back to misery?
How many times have you had sex and it led back to misery?
How many times have you let in a bad friend and it led back to misery?
Too many, right? The only reason it led back to misery was because you made it your happiness.
It’s no one else’s responsibility to make you happy. Every being has their own spirit, path, journey, heart, desires, and purpose. They are not responsible for yours. People will always disappoint you.
God is your source. The perfect universe he created is source. Your inner being is your source. People will always fail at making you happy. People are as imperfect as you are. People have their own journey. True happiness is very personal.
Too often, we accept certain people and allow certain situations in our lives because we think somewhere in there is a piece of our happiness.
Well, are you happy, in perfect peace, full of joy and contentment?
Or, are you miserable? Still looking for happiness in people, places, situations, and things. You had the temporary feeling of happiness and it faded away because it wasn’t pure happiness.
Back to square one.
Do the work with yourself. Do the work with your spirit.
Enjoy people. Love people. Just understand their not your source.
Bow out gracefully to those who don’t see your value. Bow out gracefully to those who always bring your down. Bow out of chaos and go be happy. It’s not their work, it’s yours.
Be okay to be alone or easily accept the unacceptable.